When he asks “why are you still single?”

If you’re dating, no doubt by now men have asked “why are you still single?”

Many girls feel that when a date asks this question, maybe he’s trying to trick her.  I’ve even spoken to girls who are offended when a man asks “why are you still single?”

I want you to know that this is a very normal dating question.  He really isn’t trying to trick you and he doesn’t think that there is something wrong with you.  Please don’t get offended when your date asks you this.

In today’s video, I’ve explained this question in more detail and I’ve provided two ways to answer depending on your personality type.

If your personality is more introvert you can simply respond with:

“I guess I haven’t met the right one yet”

If you’re more extrovert and playful, you can say:

“I know…calamity right” and then giggle and laugh.

Please do pick the response that you’re most comfortable with. As I explain in today’s video, men aren’t trying to trick you, neither does he think that you’re less than.  It’s really no different to looking for a job and getting asked “How long have you been looking for a new job?”

In both instances, your date and prospective employee are merely trying to get to know you. The only way they’re going to get to know you is by asking questions.

Mr Right will absolutely ask you this question too. The reason I’m stating this is because some girls feel that Mr. Right would never ask this question.  Trust me, he will!

India x

P.S To help you answer more of his questions, I’ve updated my book “How to Answer Dumb Dating Questions”. It’s now available from Amazon in both print and digital format.

One thought on “When he asks “why are you still single?”

  1. S.T.

    Two of the best, most remarkable and useful books I’ve read for singles:

    “Why Men Ask Dumb Dating Questions” and “How to Date”, both by the professional Dating and Relationship Expert for Women, India Kang.

    The author is an incredibly savvy woman whose keen intellect, wisdom and polish give readers a tremendous edge in the dating world.

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